Lessons From Banky W And Adesua’s Love Story
We often think celebrities have the best love story because they announce everything on social media and display all sorts of PDA in the presence of paparazzi, but that notion is wrong.
Many of this celebrities often have their hiccups to all over the social media. A good example is the dramatic atmosphere surrounding the divorce of actress Toyin Abraham and her ex husband, Johnson.
Intimacy has its way of breeding great romance and love, and that is mostly the situation when privacy is adopted, and that is what many of us appreciate Banky W and Adesua Etomi for, their discreetness.
Today, NIGERIA NEWS would be bringing out the major lessons one can learn from the love story down to engagement down to marriage of the Wellingtons.
Just sit back, read, and enjoy.
Nothing Does It Better Than Humility
Humility is a virtue every celebrity should begin to imbibe. There could be nothing as wonderful as being humble in the life of a superstar. It rids negative energy out of a person’s life.
Banky W was already a successful musician and producer long before Adesua Etomi even dream of featuring in a blockbuster nollywood movie.
Yet, he did something regular guys on the social media today- slide in slay queens DM. He didn’t see it as beneath him. He wanted a girl and he went for her on social media.
Imagine pride had halted him from sliding in her DM, he just may have missed a chance to be with the woman of his dreams and we would be considering them for celebrity couple of the year award.
If you are one of those “people” or “celebs” that feel too important to respond to a DM let alone send one, Biko, please learn humility from Banky W so you don’t miss out on possible opportunities.
Opportunities come but once Egbon. Just do the needful now. Slide in her DM.
Wise Decisions Earn Adoration
The general notion of celebs these days that to be in the twitter gossips, maintain large paparazzi; they must be doing something out of ordinary, and scandalous, something fans would want to pry in your privacy for.
But here are two smart celebrities; no scandals, no fighting, no dissing, no indecent talk or dressing. Nothing out of the ordinary yet they won the adoration and fandom glory.
All you young lads who will record yourself naked or half naked “twerking”, just so one Ade Ferrari would see your video on NIGERIA NEWS, you’re just wasting your time, no one will adore you for it. Only lusts.
Even unnecessary attention derived by cyber-bullying others, posting pictures of you and bae in bed after a marathon rounds of “you know” could give nothing but a day feature on social media, your story soon becomes irrelevant once peeps are over you.
Just do the right thing and you could break the internet like Adesua and Banky. People will jump on your fan page if you could do something significantly right.
Good Times Bring Opportunity To Make Peace
Weddings are good times very perfect for making peace with people, settling old rift and making new friends. They are very good times to reconcile and settle old fights.
Nollywood actress, Toyin Abraham reconciled with Adesua during her engagement after disagreeing on national TV earlier in 2017.
The both of them had exchanged serious hot words at an entertainment conference event after Adesua claimed she was no member of any Nollywood Association.
After what seemed like an eternal feud between both actresses, the pair reconciled after Toyin attended Adesua’s traditional wedding.
The major lesson to be learnt here is that no matter what the problem it is you may have with a person, it’s never too late to reconcile and who knows your wedding could be the best place to settle.
Never Dispose Great Friends And Company
The real stars of that gave Banky and Adesua joy on their day were their company of friends. These friends and families of Banky and Adesua were the stars and in fact the realest MVPs.
These friends never relayed a spoiler alert about the the relationship between Adesua and Banky W.
They never felt the relevance of being the first to broadcast the proposal or that Banky popped the question.
These friends understand privacy and how to keep friends secrets. And they were there in South Africa to joyously celebrate them.
Proposals Could Be Intimate And Private And Still Be Special
For those who like being stereotypes, here’s a new lesson for you. It is not until the proposal is done openly, in public, with bloggers and pressman covering it live or someone streaming it live for Facebook and Instagram that a proposal would be special.
In fact, it is now a trend everyone presume special that capturing a proposal before couples could verified is the definition of “being in love.
These proposals may be perfect but are not special to the both of you, there’s need to stand out and dare to be different.
Nigerians have taken proposal drama overboard yet none of them broke the Internet like the nice, sweet and quiet proposal from Banky W.
Intimacy is special. You don’t need all the drama to trend. You can still trend when you do things differently. What really counts are your antecedents not the theatrical antics of your engagement.